A life wasted in looking for what is just beyond reach......tragedy being it is always just beyond reach. A tanatalising flame that dances just enough within frame of vision to seem attainable, but the close one moves to it, the more it eludes....and all that is left is a soul squeezed dry.
How we broke up and rebuilt our relationship : 7 rules that helped us build a solid marriage
Read it on Medium here My husband and I have been married for more than a decade now and have been partners for almost double that. Today, we have a fairly solid marriage; meaning there are days we absolutely cannot stand each other but still manage to work like a well-oiled machine. And there are most of the other days where we know without a doubt that there is no one else we would rather spend our lives with. This well-oiled machine did not spring up overnight though. The drafts were made much before we even got married. Because much before we actually got married, we broke up. Much like a phoenix, we rose from the ashes. We crashed and burnt. But, we also rebuilt something from those ashes. We rebuilt a stronger relationship and ultimately our marriage. The history When the man and I met, we were young, starry eyed and hopelessly in love. We moved quickly. Within a few months, we moved into a house and less than a year in, we moved cities so he could be closer to his family.
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btw i might be quoting Shelley wrong
I'm supposed to be an adult and I'm still yet to figure that one out.
Yet as time goes by, all these images tend to dissolve and all we are left with is the people, who are no different from what they were or what they will be!
So as young girls get their hearts broken, men and women suffer over the choices they've made, young kids full of hope, full of fear, full of love and courage grow up stealthily in their sleep!